Sane, and Consentual...
Sane, Consentual is the only way to practice certain lifestyle
Means taking care of each other as best you can, that no matter
how you want your scenes, however gentle or rough, do them in
ways that do not injure your partners. "Safe" means
that you remove the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases
seriously and use your best efforts to minimize those dangers.
What can you do? Educate yourself. Learn as much as you can
so that you can do safe scenes. That means read books, take
classes, and ask others about specific techniques that interest
you. Safety should always come first. It's especially important
to not let your desire rule your good senses.
Power exchange is about trust -- trust that the person who has
the power in a scene will use it responsibly. If you are the
Top then it is up to you to use the power your Bottom has granted
you in a respectful and sane way. Your Bottom has given you
a gift of trust, and you are honor-bound to repay it with good
judgment. If as the Top you are so involved in your scene that
you can't make good judgments, then you are not in control of
yourself, and you have no business being in control of someone
else. Sanity is about control, and self-control comes first.
Be true to yourself and don't feel pressured to go where you
don't want to. Control your boundaries and make sure they aren't
crossed. Talk about boundaries BEFORE you play! Keep an open
mind and be willing to try things you are comfortable with.
that happens in a scene between people must be acceptable to
all concerned. If you aren't sure that your partner has consented
-- has said 'yes' -- then you need to communicate until you
are 100% sure. The best way to get to 'yes' is to make sure
that 'no' is an equally acceptable answer. This holds true in
every situation, whether asking someone for a phone number or
negotiating a scene. The less pressure you apply, the more likely
that a 'yes' will come and will be a sincere answer. It's dangerous
to play with someone who has said 'yes' for the wrong reasons.
You can quickly end up in a situation that is neither safe,
sane, nor consensual. To protect against this, refrain from
pressuring anyone, and if you feel you are being pressured,
set limits and stand by them. You should always feel free to
say 'no.' Consensual means that you are sceneing because you
want to, with someone who wants to, that everyone involved is
willing to go ahead with the scene. If you are in the least
bit unsure, stop and talk. The time to clarify consent is before
a scene, not after.
Play Safe, Play Consentually and Let Your
Fantasy Become Reality!
with any sex toys, if you are a beginner or an experienced player
you always need to be careful and use proper hygiene. Sex toy
play with out proper hygiene can lead to serious illness or
infections. Remember to always use plenty of lubrication that
is non- petroleum based since petroleum based products will
serve as a median for bacteria growth and will also degenerate
condom material. For ease in cleaning anal toys, cover them
with a condom before use.
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term "stainless" implies a resistance to staining,
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easy cleaning ability of stainless makes it the first choice
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routine cleaning will easily remove normal soiling. One option
to clean and polish stainless steel items is to soak them in
warm water and then rub with lemon juice or undiluted white
or cedar vinegar before rinsing thoroughly. The best way to
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To remove streaks, rub with olive oil or club soda. Another
option is to simply handwash with a solution of hand dish washing
liquid detergent and water; or a solution of baking soda and
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